the situation judah was in was allowed by god.
in fact...there are lots of similar situations.
(note: these are not necessarily situations of sin or rightousness. just situations that would make it easy
to doubt the love of god.)
go back to exodus...exodus 16:3...israel is in the desert, where god has led them. they say:
"would that we had died by the lord's hand in the land of egypt, when we sat by the pots of meat,
when we ate bread to the full; for you have brought us out into this wilderness to kill this whole
assembly with hunger."
god's people in the desert had difficult circumstances that made them doubt god's love.
ruth...after losing her husband and sons...says (ruth 1:20):
"Do not call me Naomi; call me Mara, for the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me.
I went out full, but the Lord has brought me back empty. Why do you call me Naomi, since
the Lord has witnessed against me and the Almighty has afflicted me?"
job...after losing his cattle, sheep, camels, sons, daughters, and his health by the explicit will of god...has his wife tell him (job 2:9)
"do you still hold fast your integrity? curse god and die."
same happens for us -
difficult times mean that we often start to forget god's goodness.
e.g....
i especially forget it when circumstances don't seem to work out.
esp...when i'm trying to figure out a major decision or determine 'what to do.'
this seems to be (unfortunately) somewhat normal
i do it - israel did it, judah did it.
- god does allow circumstances that make it difficult for us (in our sin) to doubt his love.
- the presence of difficult circumstances does not mean that god doesn't love you.
- different people have difference circumstances (some easy, some hard). but gods love stays constant.