what are the things that annoy you most? your fiancee?
(messy vs clean? relaxed vs responsible?)
relational theory: honesty, commitment, affection
commitment and security
negativity and positivity
affection...importance of.
what are your goals? what will success look like?
goals and expectations:
jobs
negativity
patterns (sleep, work)
kids
communication
family background
arguing
what to do when you disagree about the facts?
how do you make up?
forgiveness.
bitterness.
commitment to fight.
morality in the argument.
truth - strictness (don't exagerrate in your mind)
logic - sticking to the rules
dealing with sin
when to encourage, when to help
ministry and purpose
interests and habits
money:
what people fight over.
budget.
needs,wants, using it wisely
giving
who makes the calls?
parenting
sex and intimacy