a. the single christian should be focused on 'how he may please the lord' (v.32)
b. the married christian should be focused on how he may please his spouse
and the lord (v.33,34)
(note that pleasing one's spouse is a form of pleasing the lord (it's commanded))
c. pleasing ourselves is not the focus, either way
the attitude here is that of a servant who's concern is to please his
master through his obedience.
two areas to worry about :
intentional : intentionally attempting to please ourselves
unintentional : forgetting to make our focus pleasing the lord
(REQUIRES CONSTANT EFFORT)
(this is how we avoid the unintentional lack of focus)
2. we should live with a mind to the imminence of christ's coming
1. So then those who have wives should be as those who have none - focused on christ
2. those with tears like those not weeping - comforted by perspective
3. those who rejoice like those not rejoicing - sobered by perspective
4. those who buy like those without possessions - no foolish wordliness
5. those who use the world as though they were not using it to the full - proper goals...